Deborah Besinger has been described as a "breath of fresh air," "f**king revolutionary", "teacher of healthy perspective and compassionate humanity" while coaching her clients open up to possibilities that reflect their own values and honor their souls.
A single mom to three living kids (two who have various medical and developmental issues), Deborah found herself back in a strange new dating world after the completion of her 19 year marriage. Deborah not only realized the way we socialize and date had radically changed, but also that the 'expert advice' out there went against her personal values and encouraged people to play games and not treat people like people.
She knew there had to be a better way.
Deborah went on her own journey of self-discovery and is passionate about the gift of recreating ourselves and designing the life and relationships we want NOW. She recently published a memoir about her journey from growing up and living in a Christian bubble until her divorce, then how divorcing meant reforming everything she believed in and caused her to take a hard look at where her values truly lied. Deborah discovered freedom intellectually through committing to life-long learning, freedom emotionally through working hard to both feel and understand her emotions without someone else telling her what to feel, and sexually, as she abandoned the oppression of both religion and patriarchy and began to have pleasurable experiences simply because she wanted to do so. (more about the book HERE or to purchase HERE)
Deborah Besinger became a Certified Life and Relationship coach so she could be the most authentic expression of herself by helping other people find more love in their life. She will cheer you on as you discover your amazing heart and open up to let others experience it, too. Over the years, not only has Deb using dating and relationships as a way to learn more about herself and others, she also became her own research project...keeping statistics on her own dating and trying some things she wouldn't recommend to just anyone. The value that Deb can add to you is that she has been in the trenches and she's done the work.
Deborah is described as a quiet storm who is fascinated by relationships, while being keenly insightful and open-hearted. She is also a sought-after expert and has been interviewed and featured in The Washington Post, DatingAdvice.com, The Huffington Post, Prevention Magazine and even featured on The Steve Harvey Show. Additonally, she writes for several only publications like The Good Men Project, Scary Mommy and HuffPost, with a dash of humor and a large dose of authenticity. Deborah is also the mother to a few spirited, entertaining souls, while fueling herself with creamy cups of coffee, the joy of kitty cat cuddles, the release of a well-timed F word within long intimate conversations.
A single mom to three living kids (two who have various medical and developmental issues), Deborah found herself back in a strange new dating world after the completion of her 19 year marriage. Deborah not only realized the way we socialize and date had radically changed, but also that the 'expert advice' out there went against her personal values and encouraged people to play games and not treat people like people.
She knew there had to be a better way.
Deborah went on her own journey of self-discovery and is passionate about the gift of recreating ourselves and designing the life and relationships we want NOW. She recently published a memoir about her journey from growing up and living in a Christian bubble until her divorce, then how divorcing meant reforming everything she believed in and caused her to take a hard look at where her values truly lied. Deborah discovered freedom intellectually through committing to life-long learning, freedom emotionally through working hard to both feel and understand her emotions without someone else telling her what to feel, and sexually, as she abandoned the oppression of both religion and patriarchy and began to have pleasurable experiences simply because she wanted to do so. (more about the book HERE or to purchase HERE)
Deborah Besinger became a Certified Life and Relationship coach so she could be the most authentic expression of herself by helping other people find more love in their life. She will cheer you on as you discover your amazing heart and open up to let others experience it, too. Over the years, not only has Deb using dating and relationships as a way to learn more about herself and others, she also became her own research project...keeping statistics on her own dating and trying some things she wouldn't recommend to just anyone. The value that Deb can add to you is that she has been in the trenches and she's done the work.
Deborah is described as a quiet storm who is fascinated by relationships, while being keenly insightful and open-hearted. She is also a sought-after expert and has been interviewed and featured in The Washington Post, DatingAdvice.com, The Huffington Post, Prevention Magazine and even featured on The Steve Harvey Show. Additonally, she writes for several only publications like The Good Men Project, Scary Mommy and HuffPost, with a dash of humor and a large dose of authenticity. Deborah is also the mother to a few spirited, entertaining souls, while fueling herself with creamy cups of coffee, the joy of kitty cat cuddles, the release of a well-timed F word within long intimate conversations.
