When I saw GMP put out a call for submissions on this topic, I realized I know lots of people who go on dates through apps. This is largely because as a dating coach, my clients usually go on 3-5 dates a week once they’re online. They generally are in an exclusive relationship within three months. We know, even though marriage rates are down in general, at least a third of marriages are a result of digital dating.
So, what’s going on with all the other folks who aren’t getting dates? After working with countless singles, here are the top five ways I think they are missing the point:
*You’re lazyThis is the number one reason I find people aren’t having success. I meet people all the time who say, “Dating is SO MUCH WORK!” I think many people believe they will pop on an app, go on one date and find the person they are looking for at the first go. They also sometimes fail to realize that once they get in a relationship, they will have to work at it, too!
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